Author: The Mom

The Insanity of Daylight Saving Time

The Insanity of Daylight Saving Time

I live in North Alabama in a rural community. My ruralness increases because we built our house in the woods, back away from the road and neighbors. It gets dark at night.

I am an early riser . . . not by choice but by necessity. Home schooling three boys and writing in a full-time career required me to make quiet time to walk. Mornings became that quite time. I could get up, do my study time, get in some exercise just as dawn would break, and still have time to get work completed before the chaos ensued.

Until . . .

Winter brings on the longer periods of darkness, made even longer for me by the government’s determination to steal my morning. I spend the winter months longing for the burst of green that the Spring will bring, and the early mornings that will creep up along the way.

I used to anyway. At some point, the government must have discovered my new found morning routine and set about to steal the light of my morning.

I suspect the conversation went something like this.

“We need more daylight.” Politician One said.

The politicians had gathered from all around to correct the light problem.

“I concur the we need more daylight.” Politician Two concurred. He had made his mark concurring.

The politicians huddled around for days, talking some and sharing meals. The cries of yes announced that the answer had been discovered.

“We will set all the clocks forward one hour and then we will have more daylight.” Head Politician declared the measure.

The vote was unanimous. They all patted each other on the back and smiled for pictures. They had fixed the the problem

I HATE Daylight Saving Time

No matter what the clocks declare, the amount of daylight remains the same. Instead of driving home in the dusk or dark, commuters make that drive on the way to work. Instead of being able to start the day at sunrise, farmers start their day in the dark.

Now, we just have the added core of resetting all electronics and clocks to the “right” time, which is the wrong time, until the fall colors sprinkle the ground (and then we have to reverse the process).

Stop the Insanity

You will never make a blanket longer by cutting off the bottom and sewing it to the top. All you do is increase your work and make the blanket a little less effective.

Daylight Saving Time never worked and will never work. It is time to leave time alone!

Signed,

the Mom

What do you think? Do you love DST or do you hate DST? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

Keep it Simple When Planning Family Meals

Keep it Simple When Planning Family Meals

We have been on the go – not that we have ever not been on the go. We are down to one family car in a car of four drivers and that requires a LOT of going.

For years, I would sit down on Saturday or Sunday and map out the menu for the upcoming week. There were times when I would get very optimistic and plan out a whole month. The month menus hit snags when I forgot to get certain items from the store. The week menu hit snags when I got caught up in work and forgot to start a meal.

EVERYTHING hit a snag when we started this new “Go Schedule.” It is tough to follow a menu when you are not even in the house.

I came up with a template for meals – one that would make use of all the food groups, the leftovers, and the convenience food (like cereal or bagels).

There are several options for each of the main entrees in the pantry or in the freezer. Breaking down the entrees into this template means that we have no main course more than twice a week (except for leftovers). Any leftovers not utilized by Saturday night gets sorted into individual portions and frozen for future conveniences needs.

There are still days when it life gets in the way or the going keeps going and the menu is ignored, but those days are fewer than ever before.

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Keep it simple – it is not just a great idea for life but it turns out it was the perfect solution for getting my family fed.

What meal time tricks do you use? Share your thoughts in the comments below and be sure to link to your own meal time struggles or ideas.

Download the Simple Template by clicking HERE

Six Tips for Meals on the Go

Six Tips for Meals on the Go

Following a few simple tips can help you make the most of your meals on the go. Taking to the road does not mean you will leave a wake of fast food containers or restaurant receipts in your wake. I have learned from experience.

Take the Meal on the Road

Feeding my man family – two teenage manboys, a husband, and ready to be a man but not quite a pre-teen – almost requires taking out a loan when we stop at restaurants or fast food establishments. I long for those days when one meal could be spread out between a child and a parent . . . but I fear that longing will be all that I get to do.

The kids are growing, and that means some creative meal planning when we are going to hit the road. As long as I think ahead and pack well, we can eat healthy and happy without having to hit a bank along the way.

My Tips for Feeding the Family on the Go

  1. Offer something different (or maybe it would be better to say special). Road meals should be treats that will not be had at any other time. I have a fond memory of peanut butter and honey sandwiches that they gave us at summer camp, but only when we went on the canoe trip. I loved those sandwiches. That is one of my favorites for “only get this when we are on a road trip” meals. I up the healthy status by baking the loaf bread from scratch and using almond butter in place of the peanut butter.
  2. Keep the meal easy. The more moving parts to the meal, the more opportunities there will be for a train wreck – which means messes. I have taken the morning biscuit to a new level by modifying the sausage ball recipe. I added extra flour mix and several eggs so that the resulting “sausage baseball” is more of a well-rounded breakfast meal than just a meaty appetizer.
  3. Make sure that it can close. I have used drink bags and even canned items in the past, but sooner or later (and often both) a spill is going to happen. We have gone to individual water bottles that we use for hiking and camping. I can pack a container of sweet green tea and we know that even if the car makes a sudden stop the drinks will not end up everywhere. Be sure that the main container will also seal shut for that moment WHEN it tips over (because it will).
  4. Provide garbage cans for all the rows in the car. We have several of the little bathroom cans in the Suburban. We use the leftover plastic grocery bags to line the cans. This makes for easy cleanup. Be sure to empty the cans each time you stop – even if they are not yet to the point of being declared full. Roll up extra bags and keep them stored in the bottom of the can underneath the liner.
  5. Take a moment and eat outside the car. Use gas stops and bathroom breaks as meal breaks. You will have more opportunities to enjoy the unique scenery of the places you are passing through. You will keep the driver from trying to eat and drive (because something gets spilled or messed up no matter how nice the intentions). Most importantly, it helps to keep the car clean.
  6. Consider a travel cooler. We have several full-sized coolers that we use for camping and activities. Our travel cooler is about two feet by one foot and offers just enough space for some sandwiches and a few snacks. It is the perfect size for sitting in the middle of one of the rows of seats and it is easy to access while we are on the move.

Eating on the road can become a fun part of family travel traditions. The right planning can help you save on your travel costs, but also allow you to see even more while you are out on an adventure. These top tips can help you make the most of your meals on the go.

Let me know if they work for you and if you have any great tips for meals on the go.

Signed,

The Mom

Backyard Field Trips – Steele Orchard

Backyard Field Trips – Steele Orchard

Every week my sons and I took a field trip. Keith worked a traditional job on only had the opportunity to attend on a few occasions. Some of the trips were just to local playgrounds while others were too amazing “backyard” locations – like Moundville, Alabama.

I scheduled a few trips when son #3 came along, but the logistics soon became a nightmare. The older boys were NOT interested in trips that would entertain the youngest and I would have had to hogtie the youngest to do the trips the older boys would enjoy.

It is a new season for the TraveLangs and that is opening up doors for field trips again.

We took the first leap with a trip to a local orchard. I intend to do many more of these agricultural trips because the youngest has declared an interest in having his own farm.

Goodies from Steele Orchard with TraveLangs

The drive was easy enough, but I did pack snacks just in case the tour took longer than expected (or food was necessary just to make it home). Keith was able to make this one with us.

I had forgotten how much “fun” (and by fun, I mean noisy, chaotic, squealing free play) that appears when a whole gaggle of homeschoolers gathers. The tour was also informative, although the orchard had the barn decorated for haunted house tours and the older boys were distracted on more than one occasion with the tunnels and decorations.

Apple varieties at Steele Orchard with the TraveLangs

The tour taught about bees, Johnny Appleseed, and apple varieties. The taste testing was one of the favorite stops for all.

I appreciate small farms and growers that are continuing to not only pursue their passions but that open their doors to share those passions.

Thanks to Steele Orchard for sharing with us. You can see more about the orchard by clicking the link and viewing the video Keith put together about the orchard and the fun we had.

Watch the Video

Having Adventures While Sitting at Home

Having Adventures While Sitting at Home

The TraveLangs spent most of October on one adventure or another. It felt at times – to me and to others – that were never home. Sometimes that is good. Sometimes you just want to hang around the house for a bit.

The change in time and the change of month left the TraveLangs stranded at the house. Add to that an injured dog (that should NOT be left alone) and I am longing for those days of multiple adventures.

The truth of the matter – for most of us out there, the constant adventures are not a possibility. We have jobs. We have school. We have obligations that land-lock us. The TraveLangs are in that spot.

Stay-at-home adventures with the TraveLangs

We are finding ways to have fun adventure without stepping a foot outside our door – okay, maybe a foot or two, but that is all.

The TraveLang Guide to Home Adventure

  1. Game Night – and I mean a FULL night of games. Go ahead and line them up and then knock them down. Include team games – maybe Spades. Include active games – have you ever heard of Farkle? Include mystery games – can you say CLUE? Set up a bar of snacks and finger foods – but be sure that the food and drinks are kept apart from the games so that there is no chance of spillage.
  2. Do a craft project – something that you can complete and clear out in a day. This is the perfect adventure for the holidays because you can do family holiday cards, from scratch. You could also do a day of cooking. We have a house full of boys so cooking is always appreciated (even if they have to give part of it away).
  3. Set up a scavenger hunt – the more creative the better. Let the kids set up a scavenger hunt for you – or you could each set up a hunt and then draw names to see who goes where. Make it a full day of hunts.
  4. Bring on the guests – invite others over to the house for some outdoor games. Our boys have made up a role playing type game where they go on quests together. My friends and I use to play our version of Narnia. Get into the act with them to take the fun to the next level, but let them have the lead.
  5. Build a better adventure day – fill a can or bowl with home adventure ideas. Let the kids add their own ideas as well (but you may want to set up restrictions for those). When the need for adventure strikes, then have someone draw from the bowl. You can do the one item on the paper or you can spend the whole day drawing adventures from the bowl.

Getting away from it all has its advantages. Finding adventure on your own in your own back yard does as well.

Mystery Rock – Family Tourism Adventure Novel

Mystery Rock – Family Tourism Adventure Novel

Mystery, adventure, letterboxing, my love for the beauty of Alabama and the Gulf Coast all ran into each other. I won the 2012 SELTI Short Story Contest and wanted to turn that story into a tourism literature work.

Although I did find a way to expand it into the third book of the Big Springs series, it lost its tourism feel for me. I tried forcing the tourism aspect, but the characters were not cooperating.

That year, I determined to win #NaNoWriMo – which means, I determined to finish the National Novel Writing Month challenge of crafting 50,000 words in the month of November. I had read recently about a boat that was uncovered on the Gulf Coast after a hurricane. It lead me to wonder what else might be uncovered and that is where Mystery Rock was born.

As the story grew and I focused on the locations along the Gulf Coast, I begin to think of ways to could shine the spotlight on the locations. Adding the links to the sites seemed natural. Adding letterboxes to the locations seemed BRILLIANT.

Mystery Rock from the Scouting Out Adventure series

I worked with SELTI and Alabama Tourism to begin making contacts at the different locations. My family began making plans for a trip to the beach – the fact that we needed to go was of little importance. It took time. It took patience. Eventually, the plans came together.

We visited the Gulf Coast and toured some of the sites. The trip had two purposes in my mind – to scout out locations and to determine the validity of the story ideas. We returned home and began the process of finalizing the project.

My family was greatly disappointed when I informed them that we had to make a second trip to the coast. We plotted out our tour. We designed our letterboxes. We even worked with a stamp carver to get special stamps – when they are all four put together they form a single image from the book.

The trip to the Gulf Coast helped to stir the fuel of excitement about “Mystery Rock” for my family and for the locations where we hid the letterboxes. We took pictures of the locations, but sharing them was vetoed by the oldest son. “It’ll make finding them too easy.” We wrote the clues and tried to create the same excitement and challenges that the boys faced in “Mystery Rock.”

“Mystery Rock” shares the adventure of a family in a way that will allow your family to share the adventure. Read the story. Visit the sites. Discover the letterboxes. And in doing all of these, discover a part of Alabama that you may not even know was there.

Get your copy of “Mystery Rock” today!

Review of the Mobile Drury Inn

Review of the Mobile Drury Inn

The Drury Inn, Mobile, Alabama offered some great perks for our one night stay. The price compared to the other locations in the area. It also allowed for all five of us to stay in the same room.

We arrived later than I had planned. The Drury Inn offers an evening meal to guests, as well as drinks. Our arrival happened about thirty minutes after they had finished serving, but my crew was too tired to eat anyway.

The check-in went smooth and the attendant was very pleasant. We found a parking place next to our entrance and unloaded.

The moment we walked in, my son made it clear that we had chosen well. Spencer awed at the chandelier hanging in the lobby ceiling. We found our room and settled in for the night.

It was a tight fit for our crew, but everyone slept just fine.


Most hotel rooms offer little privacy for study or work. Occasionally, a suite will have a nook where I can get away. The Drury Inn had several niches around the first floor that worked perfectly for my morning quiet time. It was only two doors down from our room so that I could keep an eye out for early wakers. Breakfast started serving at 6 am, so I got a cup a coffee and enjoyed my quiet time.

The rest of the crew began to stir a couple of hours later. Spencer was first to wake and request breakfast, so he and I made our way to the breakfast spread. They offered sausage, gravy, biscuits, toast, bagels, eggs, potatoes, oatmeal (not instant) and “make your own waffles.” My son went straight for the cereal – because he never gets that at home. The rest of the crew made their way to the lounge area and filled up for the morning adventures.



LOCATION:

The Drury Inn, Mobile is easy to locate – IF you have some understanding of the Mobile service roads. It can be a little more of a challenge otherwise. The Drury Inn sits just off I-65 and Airport.



STAFF:

There are not enough positive adjectives to describe the staff. I even had the chance to meet one of the customer service operators (who happened to be staying there) and she was a delight. They were all friendly, greeted me with a smile, and were helpful – at 10:30 pm and at 6:00 am.



ACCOMMODATIONS:

The room and facilities were clean. The bed was comfortable. The room was quiet. The Drury Inn is extremely pet-friendly and kid-friendly.



BIGGEST BONUS FOR US:

The evening meal can be a great way to save a little money and some hassle while traveling with the family. Most hotels now offer some type of breakfast, but the Drury Inn is the only one that we have encountered that offers the evening option as well.

BONUS FOR OTHERS:

This chain is pet-friendly. We have stayed at hotels that allowed people to bring their pets, but this is the first one where we have seen people traveling even with their large dogs. Your elevator experience is taken to a new level when you have the chance to share it with a Labrador.

BIGGEST COMPLAINT:

There are only three Drury Inns in Alabama at this time. Adding one to Tuscaloosa is a much-needed addition for this chain. P.S. Locate it close to downtown for my convenience.

Back in Time with the Alabama Renaissance Faire 2014

Back in Time with the Alabama Renaissance Faire 2014

The Alabama Renaissance Faire became a family tradition moment we discovered it several years back. Any excuse for costumes sends the family scurrying to find the perfect outfit. Where have had conflicts with the annual event comes around that has kept us away. Some years the weather did not cooperate. This year, nothing was going to hold us back.

The older boys started planning their costumes before October arrived. They researched the renaissance era and more than a few arguments ensued as to what would constitute a “proper” outfit for the time.

There had been talk about utilizing the pirate costumes from “National Talk like a Pirate Day,” but that idea went out the window as the boys discovered images they wanted to copy instead. We had some of the pieces in the costume closet (everyone needs a well-stocked costume closet), but had to get a little creative with some the pieces. One or two were purchased at the local thrift store.

We packed a lunch, some snacks, and drinks for the journey. The goal originally had been to do the Florence letterboxes while in town. We were halfway to the Faire when I realized that I had left the letterboxing items back at the house – probably sitting under my pirate hat.

We stopped just outside Florence for a break and some lunch. One lady in the store asked me if we were going to the Renaissance Faire and I almost asked her, “What’s that?” Instead, I just smiled and told her yes.

Finding a parking place can always be a challenge at the Faire. Parking a Suburban makes the job that much more of a challenge. We found a place and only two blocks from Wilson Park where the Alabama Renaissance Faire is held every year.

The festivities were underway by the time we arrived. The sound of bagpipes filled the air. Costumes ranged from whimsical – we saw a fawn lady – too scary. The King and Queen of the Faire were walking around and visiting with their subjects.

We made our way around the Faire and visited the many vendor booths. The older boys were on the hunt for swords. The youngest wanted a sword and shield combo. I just wanted to see the amazing handy work of the people – and did I mention the costumes?

The youngest and his dad took time to float a boat around the fountain while the rest of us shopped. We visited with the torturer at the stocks. He was funny – and I enjoyed his taunts. I watched the swordplay while the rest of them went back to the car for refreshments (I had my water bottle in my pack).

The sword purchases were made and we had watched most of the performances. We loaded back up and made the return trip to Guntersville.

Gas: $42.00
Costumes: $15.00
Souvenirs/collectibles: $60.00 (the boys all paid for their treasures with their own money)

Total cost for a day of family fun and entertainment stirred together with imagination and creativity: $57.00

Learn more about the Alabama Renaissance Faire by visiting their website, follow the Alabama Renaissance Faire Facebook page, and be sure to make your plans to visit the Faire next year!

Review of the Gulf State Park Primitive Camping

Review of the Gulf State Park Primitive Camping

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The Gulf State Park offered fun and adventure for the family. It also had some potential for hidden surprises that did not seem so appealing to me. Anyone that has met me has probably heard at least one story that proves I have few fears of things in this world. I have been known to get up close and personal with snakes to determine their identity. Spiders and I have no issues.

My concerns are more of the exotic type – or at least the salt water type. I have no love for sharks or their land walking cousins the alligators. Alligators actually creep me out even more than sharks, but that is probably because I have never had a shark grin at me. The information about the local alligators almost had me shying away from the benefits that the Gulf State Park had to offer.

I endured for my family because I am just that kind.

I spent weeks talking myself into the trip – or maybe it took me that long to block out the natives. My Facebook alligator nemesis took those very weeks to take a hiatus.

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We packed for our trip and drove down to the Gulf on a crystal blue afternoon. My husband got us checked into the campground and we drove to our assigned primitive camping spot. The men unpacked and I drove off to the grocery store while they set up camp.

I returned to find our tent set up just five yards from a small canal. All of the efforts to eliminate the land walking shark cousin from my mind went right out the window. I was sleeping next to their hunting ground. I tried to keep my eyes off the canal while never turning my back to it. It was an interesting time.

The next day my oldest son pointed out that the canal was only a few inches deep. I may have slept easier had he pointed that out before we went to sleep (or tried to sleep). I still believe he did it on purpose.

Despite my unease, the wildlife kept their distance. We never saw an alligator – or a shark – the whole time we were there. We did see lots of birds, several types of crabs (on the beach), and even a coyote – across the park.

The campsite was perfect. The Gulf State Park recently added the primitive sites. They are set back in the trees and shrubs so you have plenty of privacy in the sites. The fire pit was nice, but it was too deep to be practical for cooking with the items we brought with us. I will know for next time to take our grilling set and maybe even a grate to put over the pit.

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The primitive sites come without electricity or water, but we were only a short distance from the bathrooms so it was never an issue. After the meals, the guys would walk up to the bathrooms and wash out the pots or pans. It took them about as long to wash as it did for me to pack up from cooking.

Basic Review of the Alabama Gulf State Park

CLEANLINESS:

I give the Gulf State Park 10 out of 10. The area around the park was clear of debris and the bathrooms were very well kept.

ACCOMMODATIONS:

The camp site was very nice and I appreciated the seclusion that the primitive sites provided. The park had set out mulch on the sites, and that made for some rough sleeping. The site we were in could have used about three or four more feet on either side. I give the camp site 8 out of 10.

BENEFITS:

The camping area was very family friendly. I would say the majority of people camping the weekend we were there had children. People stayed pretty active until later in the night, but we turned on a small fan and the white noise helped block out their enthusiasm.

BONUS:

The scenery around the Gulf State Park is amazing, and it is always a bonus for my crew to be within a few miles of the beach.

Hiking Lake Guntersville Sate Park

Hiking Lake Guntersville Sate Park

The day offered blue skies and cool breezes. We packed a lunch and drove up to the Lake Guntersville State Park. Growing up, I spent many hours at the lodge. In my teen years, I spent many hours hiking the trails. Now it was time to begin sharing the wonders with my children.

Trail hiking can be tough, but it does not have to be out of the grasp of someone (like me) who hasn’t taken the time to stay in the shape that she desires. We chose a path that had been marked easy and that offered a long hike, but not impossible for the beginner.

Finding parking proved to be one of the greatest challenges. We have learned to adapt over the years because parking a suburban under any conditions often proves challenging. My husband made it work and we unloaded. I left behind my water because it was a short hike and we would be back in no time (spoiler alert: they tell the boys to “always be prepared” for a reason).

Lake Guntersville State Park with the TraveLangs

The leaves were turning and provided a colorful backdrop for the pictures. The cool weather offered comfort that our colorful but slithering friends would be safely tucked into hibernation. We walked along, enjoying the sites and each other.

The trailed curved around and the view opened up to the lake. It offered another great opportunity for pictures, but showed no signs of turning back onto itself to get us back to the truck.

We kept walking and I envied the soda peeking out of my husband’s pocket.

The path finally stopped at a small creek and waterfall. It took all we could manage to keep the youngest from jumping in. “I’m hot. I’m tired. I’m thirsty.” You should have heard his complaints – those were just what I was thinking.

A quick look at my watch (better known as the phone) and I knew that we would never get back to the car on schedule. It was taking twice as long for us to meander along the path. I also realized that there was no continuing path and to get back we would just have to follow the same path again. I eyed the hill we had walked around and wondered if we could just walk over it, but my family had already started back down the path.

The youngest threatened to boycott and just sit on the side of the trail. I considered joining him, but wondered how the others would get the suburban down that tiny path to come and get us. It took some encouraging (of myself) to begin encouraging my youngest, but we managed to get going once again.

The path back to the car was not as colorful and the views were not as amazing – although they were the same. I thought of little more than something to drink. My saving grace was the counting. I counted each step we took back out to try and determine where we had gone wrong.

We survived and back at the car I started to rehydrate while studying the map. Although the posted trip was 2.5 miles on the website, the printed map had a notation that showed the trail was not a loop. What started out as a short hike became twice as long because of the return trip.

What I learned from Hiking in Lake Guntersville State Park

  1. ALWAYS carry the daypack. I fill mine with the hiking first aid kit, water, and snacks most days.
  2. Measure twice so you don’t have to hike twice. It turns out that everything you read on the internet is not always true – or not always the whole truth. A little more research and we could have been better prepared for what we were going to be doing.
  3. Avoid trying to do too much. This seems to be the “rule of thumb” for all family outings. We were trying to get in a hike before we had to be at another event. The need to rush back to the car caused stress, exhaustion, and irritability (and that is never something the family wants in the mom).
  4. It is worth the effort. Despite the issues we encountered, the memories and the pictures were worth every step!

Take advantage of the cool, fall or spring days and enjoy a hike. Be sure to pack a day-pack to carry along with you, and include a map in your pack. Take the family and have some fun exploring the beauty in your own backyard.

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What have you learned from you adventures or misadventures with the family? Share your tips here in the comment section or link to your own post about the activities you have enjoyed with the family. You can also connect with the #TraveLangs on Facebook.